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Peaceful Parent,
HAPPY KIDS
How to Stop Yelling
and Start Connecting
DR. LAURA MARKHAM
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Peaceful parent, happy kids : how to stop yelling and start connecting / Laura Markham.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-1-10161362-7
1. Child rearing. 2. Parent and child. I. Title.
HQ769.M2857 2013
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